A couple of weeks ago I walked onto an elevator
at a hospital in Louisville. This
hospital has about the slowest elevators in the entire city and I was on the 9th
floor. The elevator filled quickly
with people going down to the first floor, a trip that would not be quick. Two of the riders on the elevator were
a man and woman, who were together; she a patient at the hospital, wearing her gown
and attached to an IV tree, and he was holding on to her, helping to support
her. When the door closed he
started talking to the rest of us, saying, I
hope you all are having a very blessed day. We all muttered a muted response. You know how it is on elevators. It’s as though there is an unwritten rule that everyone
either is to look straight at the door or at the floor and not say anything, so
there was a feeling of awkwardness as the man continued talking to us. I don’t have any idea what her condition
was, at least not in terms of the seriousness, but she did not look as though
she felt well at all. And perhaps
that’s why the man was saying the things that he said. He continued to speak, and as he spoke
he got a little more emotional and direct. He said I want you to
know that I love each and every one of you. To be honest, when a stranger in a hospital looks at me and
says I love you, I get a little bit
uncomfortable, but maybe it’s just me.
Now, let me ask you a question – how many of you
have had a complete stranger in an elevator tell you they loved you? In all my years of interesting
experiences, that was a first for me.
And I’m fairly certain it was for everyone else on that elevator as well,
because it was as though no one knew what to say in response. I had a lot of questions running
through my mind, such as can you love a
complete stranger? What motivated
him to say those words to an elevator full of strangers? And, most puzzling to me, why was it so hard for me to respond?
It is probably obvious to anyone who knows me
very much at all that I am someone who holds their emotions close to my
chest. I am a person who is not demonstrative
of my feelings, and many of you joke with me about my aversion to hugs. I stand up here week after week, month
after month, and year after year speaking about the need to love one another, so
why was it, when someone told a group of people that he loved us, that none of
us – including me – seemed to know what to do?
This morning we conclude our
Advent series of messages titled What the
World Needs Now, with a message on Love.
Of all the needs in our world, is
there any that is as great as love?
If there is, it’s hard for me to imagine what it would be.
I am
combining several passages for this morning’s Scripture texts. The first two are not Christmas
passages, per se, and the third one is a generally overlooked Christmas
passage. Each passage is about
love, and technically speaking, any passage about love is a Christmas passage,
because love is the heart of Christmas.
These passages are some of the most recognized and beautiful words ever
penned about love. They are also,
we should admit, some of the most difficult. I have not included the entirely of I Corinthians 13, but am
using the heart of the passage, where Paul very powerfully writes of the
definition of love.
I Corinthians 13:4-8 –
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does
not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5 It does not dishonor others, it is not
self-seeking, it is not easily angered it keeps no record of wrongs.
6 Love does not delight in evil but
rejoices with the truth.
7 It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails.
John 3:16-17
16 For
God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes
in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
17 For
God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the
world through him.
John 1:1-5; 14 –
1 In
the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
2 He was with God in the beginning.
3 Through him all things were made;
without him nothing was made that has been made.
4 In him was life, and that life was the
light of all mankind.
5 The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
5 The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
14 The Word became flesh and made his
dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son,
who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.
It is difficult to express how much
those words have sustained me over the years, as I know they have sustained
you, and millions of others as well.
1. I Corinthians 13:4-8.
I have read I Corinthians 13 at a
lot of weddings over the course of my ministry. It is a beautiful passage, isn’t it? They are some of the most beautiful,
poetic words imaginable. But they
also scare the daylights out of me.
Sometimes, at weddings, I half-expect at least one of the couple to stop
me when I’m reading the passage to say, wait
a minute – come again? Are you
kidding me? I’m not sure this is
what I was signing up for!
I know that my feeble
efforts at love fall so very short of what Paul writes, but I try as much as my
sometimes faint heart will allow me to live up to that challenge. But still, I’ve
not always lived up to love.
Sometimes, to be honest, I’ve not even tried very hard. But I’m probably not the only one. Sometimes it’s hard to love
people. Sometimes it’s hard to
love me. Sometimes it’s hard to
love a stranger on an elevator, but love is what the world so needs, and so
does each of us.
Paul says that love never fails.
I believe that. I have
witnessed a lot of heartbreak because of people failing love. I don’t think there is a person here
who hasn’t felt the heartbreak of someone failing love. And one of the great tragedies that occurs
when people fail love is the scars that are created – scars that cause people
to pull back from one another and create a failure to trust and create an
atmosphere of hurt and bitterness.
We may fail love, but love itself never
fails. Love calls us ever
higher. Love calls us to live with
grace rather than judgment, love calls us to forgiveness rather than
bitterness, it calls us to move beyond hatred, it calls us to go places we
would not ordinarily go, it calls us to people we would normally shun, and it
asks of us what we sometimes feel we cannot do; but love will still ask of us
all those things and more.
2. John 3:16-17.
Who
hasn’t been moved innumerable times at the words of John 3:16-17? Those verses are probably the first
words of Scripture most of us learned.
I don’t know when I first memorized them; perhaps long ago in Vacation
Bible School or Sunday School, but I can scarcely remember a time when I didn’t
have them committed to memory. If
only they could be as committed to our hearts as well!
We don’t always quote verse 17, but
they should always be tied together, because Jesus rejects judgment in favor of
love. There are a couple of reasons why I am not interested in judging
people or preaching condemning sermons.
One is because I used to be much more condemning of people. Under pressure of the crowd mentality I sometimes joined in
the chorus of condemnation or ridicule of individuals or groups. I wish I had stood up for people
instead of joining in with the crowd, but there were times when I gave into the
mentality of the crowd.
Another reason why I am not interested in condemning people is
because I do not want to lend my voice to the creation of an atmosphere that
leads to the oppression, ridicule, or rejection of other people. I don’t want to add my voice to the
harsh chorus of condemnation that is far too prevalent in many corners of the
religious community. Too many
people want to judge and condemn others while ignoring the parts of their own
lives that would be worthy of condemnation by their own standard.
And third, it communicates the idea that we must somehow earn or
deserve God’s love, which is not at all true. We do not have to do anything to earn God’s love or to
deserve God’s love. The very fact
that we exist is all the reason God needs to love us, and anyone who
communicates, in any way, that we must earn or deserve God’s love is teaching a
falsehood!
3.
John 1:1-5; 14.
The words
of John’s gospel, in what might be the most overlooked of Christmas passages,
where he tells us that the Word became
flesh and made his dwelling among us.
I am always hesitant to say anything about Greek in a message because it
sounds pretentious. Every
seminarian, after only one Greek class, suddenly fancies himself an expert in
Greek, and I am very far from an expert.
What I did learn in Greek class many years ago, however, is that verse 14
could be translated the Word became flesh
and pitched his tent among us.
I love that way of translating the verse! Imagine, the God and creator of this vast, unending universe
became one of us, lived among us, walked the dusty roads, drank water to quench
his thirst, ate the fruits of his own earth to still his hunger, and, in the
greatest act of mercy and grace, gave his life for us!
At this time of year I enjoy the
beauty of the church, with all the lights and decorations. Sometimes, at the conclusion of a
service, when everyone is gone, I like to sit for a few quiet moments here in
the sanctuary, with the lights setting a mood for reflection and
meditation. Tonight, after the
Christmas Eve service, I will take a few minutes and sit and enjoy the peace
and quiet of the moment before going home. It is a wonderful moment, after the beauty of that service,
to enjoy those moments, soaking up the surroundings and thinking of the love of
God.
It is the love of God that is the foundation
of Christmas, and the foundation of all things. The lights that illuminate the trees and decorations in our
church bear testimony to Jesus as the Light of the World, the Light that,
according to John, came into this world and pitched his tent among us, to live
with us, and to redeem us.
On this Christmas Eve, allow Jesus,
the Light of the world, to keep you now and forever in his love!